Virtual Consultations: Banaszek Family Law prepares you for success

Our lives have changed drastically because of COVID-19. It is our goal at Banaszek Family Law to ensure the quality of legal services you receive remains consistent during this uncertain time.

Out of an abundance of caution and to ensure that we are doing our part to limit the spread of COVID-19, all of our initial consultations continue to be conducted remotely as a telephone or video conference call.

Working up the courage to attend at an initial consultation with a family and divorce lawyer is a hurdle for many people to overcome. Many people believe that they must be prepared to walk away from their relationship, or endure protracted litigation if they are scheduling a meeting with a lawyer. THIS DOES NOT HAVE TO BE THE CASE! An initial consultation is a great step to take to become educated on the rights and obligations associated with your relationship and its’ breakdown.

What is an initial consultation?

At Banaszek Family Law, initial consultations provide clients the opportunity to ask questions about their family law and divorce matter. The lawyer’s job is explain the legal framework and the available options to move towards a resolution. Some clients wish to use their initial consultation as an opportunity to obtain independent legal advice about a discrete issue so that they may confidently take steps as a self-represented litigant. Initial consultations are also an opportunity for clients to interview lawyers before retaining them. The initial consultation should provide the client with insights into the lawyer’s ability to communicate confusing concepts in an understandable manner, and confirm if the lawyer is the right fit as a legal representative in a very personal matter.

The meeting with the lawyer is completely confidential - this means that the lawyer cannot share anything about the conversation you have with anyone else, unless it would be valuable to do so and permission from the client is first obtained. The lawyer is also precluded from representing your spouse/the opposing party in the future, so there is no reason to worry about the private information you are divulging being used against you in any manner. Whatever your desired purpose for the initial consultation, it is important that you come prepared to ensure that you receive all the benefits of this valuable meeting.

Preparing for your VIRTUAL initial consultation with Banaszek Family Law

We invite you to review Banaszek Family Law’s helpful tips to prepare for your first VIRTUAL consultation with a family lawyer:

TIP 1: COMPLETE THE INITIAL CONSULTATION FORM

For starters, complete and email back a scanned copy or photograph of the Initial Consultation Form before your consultation. The From will be emailed to you once your consultation is scheduled with Banaszek Family Law. The Initial Consultation Form allows you to provide details about the parties involved and a description of your matter in advance of meeting with the lawyer. Jot down some of the questions you would like to have answered by the family lawyer – this will provide the lawyer with a heads-up of issues which should be prioritized so that they can better structure your consultation and take advantage of the scheduled time.

There have been occasions where the Initial Consultation Form has confirmed that the client’s legal issue is not of a family law or divorce nature, allowing us to redirect the client to another lawyer in the appropriate practice area. This saves you time and money.

TIP 2: PREPARE YOUR DOCUMENTS (and EMAIL THEM TO US!)

You should email the following documents and items to our office prior to your scheduled initial consultation:

• Your government-issued photo identification – the Law Society of Alberta require that the lawyer takes steps to verify the identity of the client, especially if we are meeting you over the phone or video conference. We will keep a scanned copy of your photo ID on file.

• Filed Court documents – these documents will alert the lawyer of any upcoming Court dates or filing deadlines. Reviewing filed Court documents will also provide the lawyer with a better understanding of the opposing party’s position so that a comprehensive strategy that meets your needs can be prepared and discussed.

• Your notes and any questions you may have (check out TIP 3 below). The initial consultation will go by very quickly and we want to make sure that most of your questions are canvassed, so it is best to not leave it up to memory.

• A notepad and pen - it may be helpful to note useful resources or information explained during the consultation. You may also wish to take notes on your computer during the consultation.

TIP 3: WRITE DOWN YOUR QUESTIONS

Jot down some of the questions you would like to have answered by the family lawyer in advance of your video or telephone consultation, and have them readily available during the consultation. You will likely think up many questions you would like answered in the days (or hours) leading up to your consultation. Your list of questions will guide the consultation and increase the productivity of the meeting. The initial consultation goes by quickly and we want to make sure that most of your questions are canvassed, so don’t leave it all up to memory!

TIP 4: KNOW THE HISTORY

Be prepared to outline a history of your litigation or a general overview of what has occurred since your separation/conflict arose, if relevant. For example, what has the parenting arrangement looked like since separation? How were the finances organized in the household during the marriage and after separation? If you are prepared to explain your situation, the consultation will run more smoothly and you will gain more out of the process.

TIP 5: LOG IN ON TIME

This tip is a sign of the times we are living in. Instead of traveling downtown, searching for a parking spot, and finding our office at the TD Canada Trust Tower, you can have your initial consultation from the comfort of your home. But, this still requires some preparation to ensure that your technology is queued up and ready to perform. Make sure that your camera and microphone is working on your computer, or let us know if you prefer to have the consultation over the phone instead.

Once your initial consultation is scheduled, we will send you a video conference email invite through Microsoft Teams. You will be able to run the application through your Web browser. It is important that you log into Microsoft Teams on time so that you are calm, collected and can take advantage of the entire time scheduled. We understand that technology quits on us sometimes, and if that ends up happening to you, give us a call right away and we will reschedule or complete the consultation over the phone. We guarantee that there is an hour blocked off for your virtual consultation.

Disclaimer: Initial consultations should be MORE than a sales pitch 

If a lawyer only uses the initial consultation as a sales pitch and promises you the ‘moon and the stars’ but does not provide you with any valuable, concrete information, be wary of their ability to represent you. You should be comfortable with the family lawyer you hire because they will be representing your interests during what is usually a highly emotional and stressful time in your life.

Use the initial consultation as a time to interview your potential new lawyer – remember, it’s a two-way relationship. The lawyer must understand your perspective, goals, legal and emotional budget. They must also be able to communicate complex legal issues in an understandable manner. The lawyer should be able to explain what they can do and what their limitations are (whether that be time constraints or general litigation constraints).

At Banaszek Family Law, we want to make sure that your virtual initial consultation is productive and that you receive the necessary information to take next steps on your own, or understand what our involvement in your legal matter looks like if you wish to retain our services. The initial consultation is your chance to interview your future family lawyer and confirm that the relationship is a good fit.

You are one click away from taking control of your life and finding answers to your family law and divorce questions. Make the next move by scheduling your virtual initial consultation with Adrianna Banaszek today, by clicking HERE ●

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Change of Plans: Postponed weddings give couples time to plan for their futures

Postponed Weddings and Prenups

The COVID-19 pandemic has caused a cascade of wedding postponements and cancellations. Many couples are deciding that they would rather hold off on celebrating their love (and changing their marital status) until it’s possible to come within six feet of family members and friends.

Postponing the big wedding day allows couples the opportunity and additional time to consider entering into a prenuptial agreement. If you were toying with the idea in the past, but got wrapped up in the party planning instead, now is the time to secure your financial future with a spousal agreement. What is more romantic than giving your future spouse certainty about how you intend to divide your assets and debts upon separation (if irreconcilable differences crop up) before tying the knot?

Adrianna Banaszek of Banaszek Family Law explains what prenuptial agreements are, and why they are becoming increasingly popular, especially among millennials.

What is a ‘Prenup’?

A Prenuptial Agreement (“prenup”) is a contract between two future spouses that settles issues of property and debt division, spousal support, or any other matters you wish to make crystal clear in the event of a party’s death or divorce. Entering into a prenup provides parties the opportunity to plan for the unthinkable, which is often difficult, but VERY important. Having a binding plan sorted out in the event of a divorce often saves spouses money because their matters are already decided and do not need to be mediated, litigated or arbitrated. Plus, it’s much easier for most couples to make clear and fair decisions during the “honeymoon phase” or the “postponed wedding” phase, instead of when they are questioning why they decided to walk down the aisle in the first place.

If you do not enter into a prenup, you will be subject to the Divorce Act (Canada) and legislation of your jurisdiction. In Alberta, for the most part, assets and debts accumulated during the marriage will be divided equally, save for exemptions which may apply (like gifts, inheritances and windfalls). Just because you acquired an asset before you began your cohabitation or before marriage, does not mean it is exempt from division with your spouse. The increase in value of “pre-marriage assets” during the duration of your marriage may be subject to equal division as well. If you do not want the legislation to automatically apply to your relationship upon dissolution, entering into a prenup is a way of contracting out of this framework.

The Prenup Process

Bringing up your desire to enter into a prenup or a cohabitation agreement to your partner may be difficult. Some people relate entering into a marriage contract as a sign of distrust, a way of jinxing the relationship, or extinguishing the passion. It may be beneficial to book an initial consultation with a family lawyer before discussing the matter with your partner so that you have an overview of the laws affecting you while you are not covered by a prenup. If your partner is already on board with entering into a marriage agreement, take note that at Banaszek Family Law, we will only meet with one party to the agreement to protect your interests, avoid a conflict, and to ensure that the agreement will not be overturned in the future.

Financial Disclosure Exchange: What’s mine is yours?

The exchange of complete financial disclosure (documents) between the parties to the agreement is part of the drafting process and one way of ensuring that the agreement is not overturned in the future. Sharing details about your assets (savings, property ownership) and debts/financial obligations (student and credit card debts, lines of credit, leases, mortgage) with the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with puts both parties on an equal “knowledge” playing field.

When each party’s financial picture is laid out on the table, the agreement to be entered into becomes more equitable. It also gives each spouse more information about their life partner. After entering into a prenuptial agreement, each spouse should be more prepared to make the decision to marry because they know what they are signing up for from a financial standpoint.

Independent Legal Advice

Once the agreement is drafted by Banaszek Family Law and both parties have had the opportunity to review and approve its’ contents, each party will obtain independent legal advice before entering into the agreement. This will require that your partner attends at a separate law firm and meets with a different lawyer to receive legal advice on the agreement and have their signature witnessed. Obtaining independent legal advice will help ensure that the agreement is not subject to being overturned because one party did not receive the full advantage of legal advice. Obtaining independent legal advice also significantly reduces the possibility that one party can overturn the agreement in the future by claiming that they entered into the agreement under duress or that they did not understand the legal impact of certain clauses of the agreement.

Prenups for the People

Prenups are no longer reserved for the famous and wealthy. Although pop culture often depicts prenups as a preservation tool for the rich party, the less wealthy spouse may also be protected under the agreement with the inclusion of clauses that benefit their position (often upon receiving independent legal advice on the agreement).

With common law relationships on the rise in Canada and Canadians waiting longer to get married or having to postpone their wedding due to unprecedented global events, more spouses are bringing assets (and debts) into new marriages rather than accumulating them together. Career and financial stability have become priorities before marriage for Canadian millennials (Cardus Family study, August 2016), which in turn increases the need for prenups.

There is a cost/benefit analysis which needs to be undertaken in advance of entering into a prenup, and usually the benefit outweighs the cost because there is so much uncertainty in the future and many people want to keep what they worked hard to accumulate prior to tying the knot. Prenups are now, more than ever, for all people!

Banaszek Family Law is here for you

It is very difficult to plan for all of the variables that may form part of your life and marriage but you can mitigate some of the risks by entering into an agreement with your spouse. The future holds a lot of unknowns, which has become evident with the sudden spread of COVID-19 and its’ adverse impact on countless lives worldwide.

Banaszek Family Law offers flat rates for uncontested family law agreements, including: prenuptial, postnuptial, cohabitation and separation agreements. Make the next move by scheduling your initial consultation with Adrianna Banaszek today, HERE. We are pleased to continue offering a discounted rate during July and August 2020 for telephone and video conference consultations.

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Child Support in the Wake of COVID-19: Banaszek Family Law explains your legal rights and obligations

In the wake of COVID-19, the financial stability of many Canadian parents is threatened. More than 3 million Canadians have applied for jobless benefits and emergency income aid with the federal government since mid-March. In the midst of all the financial uncertainty, many parents are wondering what their legal obligations are to pay child support pursuant to a Court Order which was made in a more favorable economic climate.

Banaszek Family Law explains the paying parent’s obligations during this challenging time and the rights of the recipient parent who relies on support to ensure the children’s needs are met:

Varying child support during the COVID-19 pandemic

Among Canadians, Albertans are overwhelmingly experiencing the negative financial effects resulting from the COVID-19 outbreak. At the beginning of April 2020, Calgary’s unemployment rate was the highest in the country. Alberta’s energy sector is especially impacted as a result of COVID-19 and the oil price war, dimming the prospects of global oil demand. Oil prices have taken the biggest plunge in decades, creating further uncertainty and financial stress. This stress is spilling over into financial obligations, like child and/or spousal support payments for many Albertans.

The Federal Child Support Guidelines make it very clear that children should benefit from the income of both parents. When parents lose their jobs or their income is reduced, their ability to continue paying child support at a previously Court-ordered or agreed to amount is no longer financially feasible.

Under regular circumstances (pre-COVID-19), when a parent experiences a loss of income, they are responsible for obtaining a new judgment (a Variation Order) from the Court before the Maintenance Enforcement Program of Alberta (MEP) will change the amount they collect.

If you would like to learn more about child support and the role of the Maintenance Enforcement Program, read our blog post here: The Basics of Child Support.

A variation in child support or spousal support is permitted under the Family Law Act (Alberta - provincial legislation) and the Divorce Act (Canada - federal legislation). The Court may consider changing a child support Order if there was a change in circumstances experienced since the previous Order was made. These circumstances include a change in any of the following:

• the number of children who are dependent on the parties;

• employment that results in a long-term change in income;

• special or extraordinary Section 7 expenses incurred for the children; and

• the access costs for visits between the parties and their children.

The Court may also consider the payor’s ability to make the current payments, or other factors based on legislation the Order was made under.

Note: If the parties entered into a separation agreement, the agreement may limit how and when a variation may occur. Provide your separation agreement to your lawyer at the initial consultation so that they may review it and provide you with accurate legal advice.

MEP’s role during the pandemic

Without a Variation Order, MEP will continue to enforce the Court Order currently registered with them. MEP does not have the same jurisdiction to make changes to child support as the Court. With access to the Courts being reduced during this time, the ability to bring a claim to vary support promptly is impacted.

MEP recognizes the hardship experienced by many payor parents as a result of COVID-19 and reduced access to the Courts. The Law Society of Alberta has recently released the following statement:

The Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) recognises COVID-19 may impact a payors’ ability to meet their court ordered child support obligations. Similarly, it is recognised recipients are also impacted by COVID-19, and still have monthly obligations for the child(ren). Therefore payors making no payment is not an option.

To assist payors, the MEP will offer a temporary payment arrangement for less than the ordered amount or a temporary decrease in their current payment arrangement. This applies to payors contacting MEP looking for assistance during the pandemic due to loss of income as a result of COVID-19 diagnosis, self-isolation, loss of job (or reduced hours) or impact of childcare/school closure. Assistance to these payors will be temporary, and it is the responsibility of these payors to keep in touch with MEP month-to-month.

If you have experienced a change to your financial situation as a result of COVID-19, you should contacted your MEP case officer immediately to arrange for a payment plan and receive further information. Banaszek Family Law assists clients requiring legal support during this time. We can assist you with negotiating a new child support order or agreement, or setting up an interim payment plan with MEP to assist you financially until the Courts reopen or your economic situation changes.

Banaszek Family Law is here for you

If you require independent legal advice with respect to your family law and/or divorce matter, contact Banaszek Family Law to schedule a telephone consultation with Adrianna Banaszek, HERE. We are pleased to continue offering a discounted rate during May 2020 for telephone consultations.

Banaszek Family Law is here to assist you with your child support matter during this unprecedented time●

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Banaszek Family Law serves Albertans during the COVID-19 pandemic

We are living in unprecedented times. The World Health Organization has declared the novel coronavirus outbreak a global pandemic. We are finishing out March 2020 with 754,948 confirmed cases and 36,571 lives claimed by the coronavirus disease (COVID-19) worldwide. The virus has spread to every continent, except for the land of barren ice: Antarctica.

In a time of escalating uncertainty, Banaszek Family Law continues to serve Albertans with preventative measures in place to protect our community. Since the City of Calgary declared a local state of emergency on March 15, 2020, Banaszek Family Law has been conducting all client meetings over the phone or by video conference. All Court documents will be fax-filed to reduce traffic at the Calgary Courts Centre and all Court registries throughout the province. We will continue to limit in-person interactions for as long as public health officials advise that social distancing is required to ensure we are doing our part to flatten the curve.

Where matters are urgent or requiring immediate resolution, Albertans can continue to rely on Banaszek Family Law and our justice system to serve and protect their interests. In the latest Alberta Courts announcement, access to all courthouses in the province of Alberta is being restricted until further notice. Currently, only emergency or urgent matters are being heard by Alberta Courts. Emergency matters are those in which serious consequences to persons or harm to property may arise if the hearing does not proceed, or if there is a risk of loss of jurisdiction or expiration of an existing protection or restraining order. If you are currently experiencing a family law matter which you believe to be of an urgent nature, contact Banaszek Family Law immediately to seek legal advice.

Banaszek Family Law is here to assist you during the pandemic as we believe that your family law matter does not need to be stalled or put on hold during these uncertain times even if it is not of an urgent nature. Although access to the Courts is limited right now, litigation should never be the only method to finalize a family law dispute. More than ever before, alternate dispute resolution options should be considered and employed before litigation. Throughout Alberta, qualified mediators and arbitrators continue to offer their private services remotely, and negotiations and settlements between counsel and parties can still be accomplished without a scheduled Court appearance.

Although we are distancing from our downtown Calgary office at this time, Banaszek Family Law’s contact information remains the same. We can be reached by telephone directly at: 587-390-8548. To book an initial telephone consultation or obtain independent legal advice, please complete the consultation request form HERE.

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New Year, New Rules: Banaszek Family Law welcomes changes to Alberta's family law legislation

On January 1, 2020, Albertans welcomed a new decade along with dramatic changes to the laws regulating property division for separated unmarried couples. This legislative update is welcomed to Alberta alongside changes to the child support regime for adult children and an outdated Act being repealed.

Property division becomes less of a puzzle for unmarried couples

Unmarried couples finally have the same rights to property as their married counterparts. These changes are made possible by Bill 28, amending the Family Law Act in Alberta. Bill 28, (the Family Statutes Amendments Act, 2018) extends property division laws to include "Adult Interdependent Partners". Prior to 2020, there was no legislation in Alberta directing how property should be divided when unmarried couples broke up, resulting in uncertainty and costly legal battles. Alberta’s new legislation treats unmarried couples in the same manner as married couples after they have resided together for at least two (2) years.

In the recent past, unmarried couples in Alberta could not rely on legislation directing how property should be divided following the dissolution of the relationship. Instead, when unmarried couples separated in Alberta, they were forced to rely on (sometimes) obscure legal doctrines to divide any assets and debts that have accumulated or which resulted from the relationship. The legal doctrines the Court focused on included: resulting trusts, constructive trusts, unjust enrichment, and family law claims.

The ways in which the legal doctrines applied was often complex, affording Alberta’s judges vast discretion to make a decision on what is equitable. The nature of this process often left unmarried parties who became litigants unsure of their chances of success before walking into the Court room.

Married couples who separate rely on the Matrimonial Property Act, which very clearly outlines what the rights of each party are. All property accumulated during the relationship is divided equally (50/50) between the parties unless it meets one of the following exemptions:

1. Inheritance;

2. Damages one party received in a legal claim;

3. Gift from a third party;

4. Any increase in the value of exempt property is equitably divided between the spouses.

As a result of the changes to the Alberta Family Law Act, property division rules will now apply in Alberta to property acquired after a couple begins a relationship of interdependence whether they are married or not.

Do you want the new property division laws to apply to your situation?

If you are involved in a relationship of interdependence and would like to contract out of the new property division laws in Alberta, contact Banaszek Family Law for legal advice and to draft a Cohabitation Agreement to protect your property and rights.

Existing Agreements relating to property division which were enforceable under the law when they were signed will still be enforceable in 2020 and beyond, regardless of the amendments to the legislation.

Child support for adult children clarified in 2020

The new legislation has clarified the eligibility criteria for child support in the Family Law Act by:

• removing the age limit for adult child support;

• confirming that adult children who are unable to withdraw from their parents' care due to illness, disability, being a full-time student or "other cause" are to be eligible for a child support application; and

• aligning the Family Law Act with legislation in all other Canadian jurisdictions and the Divorce Act when it comes to adult child support.

These changes make it clear when an application for adult child support can be made, allowing the Court to determine the amount of child support (if any) that should be awarded if an agreement cannot be reached by the parties out of Court.

Married Women’s Act is repealed in 2020

If you thought that the title of this legislation and the contents of it were outdated, then you are on the same page as the Alberta Government. As the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms already guarantees equality rights and the Family Law Act recognizes that married women have a legal personality independent from their spouse, the Married Women’s Act is no longer needed and has been repealed.

Additional changes across Canada in 2020

Federal laws related to divorce proceedings and family orders were amended with the passage of Bill C-78, with the majority of changes to the Divorce Act coming into effect on July 1, 2020. The Divorce Act applies to married couples who are divorcing. The Divorce Act is federal legislation, meaning that it applies across Canada. The changes include updated criteria to determine a child’s best interests in custody cases, and much needed measures to address family violence when making parenting arrangements.

Banaszek Family Law is here for you.

The legal landscape is always developing, which means that the legal counsel you trust should understand and adapt to all legislative and procedural changes. If you require independent legal advice with respect to your family law and/or divorce matter, contact Banaszek Family Law to schedule a consultation with Adrianna Banaszek, HERE.

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The Basics of Spousal Support

This blog post is from the Banaszek Family Law’s “Family Law Basics” series. This blog series is meant to be a resource and provide some information regarding specific family law topics. These blog posts should not be taken as legal advice as most family law and divorce matters are circumstance-driven and require further analysis and advice from a legal professional. This week, Adrianna Banaszek, Calgary family and divorce lawyer, covers the basics of spousal support in Alberta:

Who is elibigle to claim support?

For married couples, spousal support is governed by the Divorce Act (federal legislation, meaning that it applies across Canada) and the Family Law Act (Alberta’s provincial legislation). Support for unmarried couples in Alberta is governed by the Family Law Act and the Adult Interdependent Relationships Act.

Under the federal Divorce Act, spousal support is most likely to be paid when there is a big difference between the spouses' incomes after they separate. NOTE: Just because one spouse earns significantly more income does not mean that their spouse will automatically be entitled to support payments. A court may decide that the spouse with the lower income is not entitled to support. The court may reach this decision if that spouse has a lot of assets, or if the difference in income cannot be traced to anything that happened during the marriage or relationship to require financial wealth be distributed more evenly between the parties.

Unmarried couples may be eligible for support if they meet the threshold requirements to be considered “Adult Interdependent Partners” as defined in the Adult Interdependent Relationships Act . In Alberta, you are considered an “Adult Interdependent Partner” of another person if you have lived together in a relationship of interdependence (section 3 of the Act):

• for a continuous period of not less than 3 years, or

• of some permanence, if there is a child of the relationship by birth or adoption, or

• have entered into an adult interdependent partner agreement with the other person under section 7.

There are limited legal protections to guarantee financial support from your separated partner if you do not meet the threshold requirements of the legislation. At Banaszek Family Law, we suggest entering into a Cohabitation Agreement to either ensure that financial support is paid or waived upon separation if you do not wish for the current legislative framework to apply.

How is entitlement to spousal support determined?

Unlike child support, spousal support is not an automatic right of a party who earns less than their spouse when they separate. The federal and provincial legislation strive to compensate spouses who have suffered financially as a result of the marriage/relationship or due to its’ breakdown. Judges consider various factors in determining if a spouse should receive support after a divorce. Some of these factors include:

1. the financial means and needs of both spouses;

2. the length of the marriage;

3. the roles of each spouse during their marriage;

4. the effect of those roles and the breakdown of the marriage on both spouses' current financial positions;

5. the care of the children;

6. the goal of encouraging a spouse who receives support to be self-sufficient in a reasonable period of time; and

7. any orders, agreements or arrangements already made about spousal support.

Judges must also consider whether spousal support would meet the following purposes:

1. to compensate the spouse with the lower income for sacrificing some power to earn income during the marriage;

2. to compensate the spouse with the lower income for ongoing care of children; or

3. to help a spouse who is in financial need if the other spouse has the ability to pay.

At the same time, the judge must consider that a spouse who receives support has an obligation to become self-supporting, where reasonable.

Types of spousal support entitlement

There are 3 categories of entitlement to spousal support: compensatory, non-compensatory and contractual (Moge v Moge; Bracklow v Bracklow). Compensatory spousal support is based on an economic disadvantage caused by the marriage to one of the spouses. Non-compensatory is needs-based support. The non-compensatory category acknowledges that married couples often become economically interdependent, and require financial support from the other to continue to meet their basic needs following separation. Contractual spousal support is agreed to by way of contract between the spouses.

Try this FREE spousal support calculator to obtain a general estimate of spousal support entitlement based on the duration of your relationship and each parties’ respective incomes. The Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines are not law but suggest appropriate ranges of support in a variety of situations for spouses entitled to support. The Guidelines are taken into account by lawyers in support negotiations and judges in making decisions about spousal support quantum and duration.

At Banaszek Family Law, we suggest you meet with a family lawyer to obtain independent legal advice as there are many factors which must be considered in confirming your spousal support obligations and potential entitlement to claim a particular amount (and length) of support following your separation from your spouse.

How does child support affect spousal support?

If either spouse is paying child support, the judge must also determine how a requirement to pay spousal support would affect child support payments. The Divorce Act clearly states that a judge must give priority to child support when a person applies for both child and spousal support. Both parents have an obligation to support their children.

To learn more about child support in Alberta, read our blog post: The Basics of Child Support.

How can I collect spousal support?

The Maintenance Enforcement Program (“MEP”) is a Government of Alberta program which collects court-ordered child support, spousal and partner support, and takes care of enforcement as needed. MEP is a free service which allows either the payor or the recipient of support to register the spousal support order. Introducing MEP into the mix may help reduce tensions for parties as the accounting and enforcement of financial matters is outsourced.

If you have a court order, you can register your order with MEP here. If you require assistance obtaining a court order for spousal support (whether it is a litigious situation or an amicable one which would be accomplished by consent of both parties) contact Banaszek Family Law to learn how we can assist you.

Need help calculating or obtaining spousal support? Banaszek Family Law is here for you.

A great free resource to assist you in understanding the process and documents required to vary spousal or partner support is found at the Government of Alberta website.

We highly suggest entering into a cohabitation agreement or prenuptial/postnuptial agreement to ensure that support obligations are either waived or secured in the event of a separation or divorce (depending on your desired outcome). To gain a better understanding of how a marriage or cohabitation agreement may be beneficial to you, read our blog: Prenups are for Lovers.

At Banaszek Family Law, we offer flat rate Spousal Support Analysis to provide you with a better understanding of what your support obligations or entitlement may be. Banaszek Family Law also offers independent legal advice and full representation with respect to spousal support matters in both Alberta and British Columbia. Make the next move by scheduling your initial consultation with Adrianna Banaszek today, HERE ●

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It Takes a Village: Banaszek Family Law explains why your divorce lawyer should not be the shoulder you cry on

At Banaszek Family Law, we believe that divorce and family lawyers should only form PART of your team of professionals as your family goes through a separation. Transitioning a family to a completely different, and often yet to be known, arrangement is extremely taxing for the separating spouses and for their children. In fact, the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale ranks divorce as the second most stressful life event that someone can go through! On the Scale, divorce is only surpassed by the death of a spouse or a child.

The high ranking of divorce on the Scale should put the stress associated with divorce into perspective for those currently going through the process of unwinding a marriage, for their legal representatives, and for their family members, friends and employers.

We strive to ensure that our clients understand our role in their divorce every step of the way. We understand that clients going through a separation or divorce often benefit from the assistance of mental health professionals, including psychiatrists (medical doctors), psychologists, and various counsellors.

Which issues should be left for mental health professionals to solve?

Family and divorce lawyers are legally trained professionals. This means that in Canada, divorce lawyers are not required to obtain specific counselling or mental health training and education in addition to the Law Society requirements of the province in which they practice law.

If your lawyer primarily practices in family and divorce law, they are often exposed to high-stress and high-conflict interpersonal situations. Although divorce lawyers should have an intimate knowledge of the interpersonal dynamics between their client and separated spouse, it is vital to remember that lawyers are not always equipped to advise and assist with your emotional and psychological well-being and healing.

Lawyers should offer the services of other professionals who are better equipped and specifically trained to assist you. If you are spilling your heart to your lawyer and the information does not assist your legal case, your lawyer should let you know that other services should be employed to reduce your legal bill. Often times, the cost of hiring a counsellor are much lower than the billing rate of your divorce lawyer. In addition, services provided by counsellors and registered psychologists may be partially or wholly covered by your health benefits plan if you have access to one.

In summary, it is best not to seek medical and psychological assistance from a legally-trained professional. Your wallet, lawyer and mental health will thank you.

Which non-legal professionals should I consider hiring during my divorce?

There are a variety of professionals which should be considered by every person going through a separation or divorce. Parties should consider if they would like to attend at counselling alone or with their spouse (if their spouse is agreeable to attending), or attending at both.

If there are children involved and a respectful co-parenting relationship is the goal, the assistance of a counsellor or registered psychologist specializing in family therapy and parenting should be researched and considered.

Parenting coordinators are also professionals which should not be overlooked by separated parents struggling to maintain healthy communication. Parenting coordinators are mental health or legal professionals with mediation training and experience. Parenting coordinators may assist separated parents in the following ways:

• implementing parenting plans for high-conflict parents;

• facilitating the resolution of parent disputes in a timely manner;

• educating the parents about the children’s needs; and

• making decisions within the scope of a court order or a contract [this is possible with the prior approval of the parties and/or the court].

If you are experiencing stress and other symptoms relating to your separation, you should also consider attending at your general practitioner for additional resources and assistance.

Your divorce lawyer has a duty to avoid litigation where possible.

We are aware that our clients are forced to constantly battle with emotions and instability during most of our solicitor-client relationship. Often times, clients come into our office as the first point of contact after deciding to take steps to separate from their spouse, which means that lawyers have a duty to advise their clients of other non-legal resources and professionals that may make the process easier if employed from the outset.

Before a court action for divorce is commenced (the filing of a Statement of Claim for Divorce) with the Court of Queen’s Bench in Alberta, family and divorce lawyers must sign the “Statement of Solicitor” if you are represented by a lawyer. This statement states as follows:

“I, [lawyer’s name], the solicitor for the Plaintiff, certify to the Court that I have complied with the requirements of section 9 of the Divorce Act (Canada).”

Before a lawyer can sign off on this statement, they should be complying with all of the following, as outlined in Section 9 of the Divorce Act:

9 (1) It is the duty of every barrister, solicitor, lawyer or advocate who undertakes to act on behalf of a spouse in a divorce proceeding

• (a) to draw to the attention of the spouse the provisions of this Act that have as their object the reconciliation of spouses, and

• (b) to discuss with the spouse the possibility of the reconciliation of the spouses and to inform the spouse of the marriage counselling or guidance facilities known to him or her that might be able to assist the spouses to achieve a reconciliation,

unless the circumstances of the case are of such a nature that it would clearly not be appropriate to do so.

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(2) It is the duty of every barrister, solicitor, lawyer or advocate who undertakes to act on behalf of a spouse in a divorce proceeding to discuss with the spouse the advisability of negotiating the matters that may be the subject of a support order or a custody order and to inform the spouse of the mediation facilities known to him or her that might be able to assist the spouses in negotiating those matters.

By signing the Statement of Solicitor, your lawyer is advising the court that they have satisfied these steps. This is not something which should be overlooked. Non-legal professionals have the potential impact of reducing your litigation and resolving interpersonal issues between you and your spouse which may make the entire legal aspect of your divorce more efficient (i.e. less costly).

Sometimes, alternative dispute resolution options (like mediation) or counselling and guidance facilities can also help spouses reconcile. If the goal is not reconciliation, obtaining third-party professional counselling may significantly improve communication between the spouses, which is vital for co-parenting or generally working through issues leading to the breakdown of the marriage. Obtaining the assistance of counselling to attend solely (without your separated spouse) may also significantly improve anxiety, stress and provide resources and tools to make the disruption a separation/divorce causes more manageable.

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At Banaszek Family Law, we understand that ‘it takes a village’ of professionals to assist in your family’s transition. We are prepared to assist our clients in finding all of the resources available to them to help reduce the stress associated with separation and divorce.

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Virtual Parenting: Banaszek Family Law explores the impact of virtual parent-child contact

The increase of virtual technology options, paired with ease of accessibility, has removed many barriers for parents to communicate with their children post-separation. But, we should not kid ourselves - all that glitters is not gold! Parents who rely (to varying degrees) on virtual technology to maintain relationships with their children often experience additional conflict with the custodial parent due to the introduction of the technological “godsend”.

Adrianna Banaszek, family lawyer and founder of Calgary-based law firm Banaszek Family Law, explains how the booming virtual technology sector has both positive and negative effects on children and their parents post-separation, and how common use of these alternate parent-child contact methods may develop a new legal landscape in Alberta.

What is Virtual Parenting?

“Virtual parenting” refers to parent-child contact and communication through the use of virtual technology.  Virtual parenting is usually parenting from afar through a plethora of communication means, including, text messaging, email, Skype, FaceTime, communicating through social networking sites, and good old-fashioned telephone calls.

Technology allows separated parents the option to increase communication and contact with their children when they are not the primary (custodial) caregiver or during the other caregiver’s parenting time. Whether the risks outweigh the benefits of these alternate modes of communicating for parents and their children is still out for debate.

Virtual tech is shaping the legal landscape

What is certain, however, is the judicial notice that virtual technology is receiving in the Alberta Courts when it comes to decisions about parenting arrangements. There is no doubt that technology has allowed parenting time to take place in situations where it likely would not otherwise. For instance, long-distance parenting arrangements are made possibility with communication technologies. The Alberta decision of BRH v RPS, 2016 ABQB 346, highlights that the use of virtual technology is a factor weighed in mobility applications (parents who wish to relocate the child to another jurisdiction) and long-distance parenting arrangements. Justice R.A. Graesser stated as follows:

[107] Technology will undoubtedly play a role. With technology, the absent parent can have daily face-to-face time with their child via Skype or Facetime, such that communications during non-parenting periods are not limited to one-dimensional telephone calls or written communications.

Although this particular case did not turn on maximizing contact between the parties, notice was taken of the parenting opportunities technology would afford (para 108). This decision was later appealed and the appellant mother was granted primary care of the child with the ability to relocate the child to Spain. Although the success of the appeal did not hinge on the role virtual technology would play, it was considered in allowing the father (non-custodian parent) generous access to his child who was to move overseas in between holidays and summers when in-person parenting time would be realized.

Is virtual technology an aid or a grenade for co-parenting?

Although virtual technologies are common place in the Western world today, there has been minimal research conducted about whether and how virtual parent-child contact impacts children, their parents and the parenting relationship post-separation. The minimal empirical research is most concerning when it comes to families involved in high-conflict disputes, which often stem from poor communication, lack of trust between the parties, and/or mental health issues.

Luckily, Dr. Rachel Birnbaum, is asking these very important questions through her research. Dr. Birnbaum is a social work professor at King’s University College, Western University, where she focuses her research on family justice issues. She conducted a survey which asked the following questions:

1. What conflicts, if any, do adult and child clients report as a result of using any type of technology for parent-child contact?

2. What benefits and challenges do family justice professionals believe about the use of virtual technology as a means of parent-child contact?

The Parents Report

The parents participating in the survey reported that the majority of conflicts occurred as a result of the following:

• 60% reported that the other parent listened in on their conversation with the child.

• 35% reported that the other parent alleged that the child is too busy doing something else at the designated virtual parenting time.

• 41% reported that the child is not available for the call at the designated time.

• 4% reported that the other parent alleges that they do not know how to use or set up the virtual technology to allow for the access.

• Other reasons conflict occurred: using the time to harass the custodial parent, using the child to harass the non-resident parent and child support/inappropriate discussions with the child, and some parents reported that they don’t want their children using technology due to safety or confidentiality concerns.

The Children Report

The children participating in the survey reported that the majority of conflicts sometimes occurred as a result of the following:

• 55% reported that conflict arose as a result of the child being busy and not always wanting to talk to the other parent at the time.

• 45% reported that the child does not have a lot to say to the other parent and the other parent gets upset due to this.

• 39% reported that the other parent is listening to the conversation during the parent-child contact.

Children mostly expressed that although virtual parenting was advantageous, virtual access did NOT alleviate their longing for their parent, and that the virtual parent contact increased their anxiety and sadness about the absence of physical contact with their non-resident parent.

The Lawyers Report

The survey found that from the perspective of family justice professionals, the risk of using virtual parent-child contact is for evidence gathering, meaning the contact is sometimes focused on planning future litigation rather than to strengthen the parent-child bond. The majority of professionals concluded that the benefit of virtual contact is that the child may maintain contact with their parent over geographical distances (beneficial for mobility applications and to foster the parental-child bond).

Benefits and challenges of parenting via virtual tech

Dr. Birnbaum’s survey findings support that there are both risks and rewards surrounding virtual parent-child contact. The risks as identified by the parents result mainly from privacy and confidentiality and the burden placed on the custodial parent to organize the parent-child contact. The benefits include that the child may maintain an ongoing relationship with a parent that they are not constantly in-person contact with. It also has the potential of reducing hostility between parents because they have no contact (or minimal contact) with each other – this is more relevant for children who are older and able to use the technology without assistance or supervision from the other parent.

The findings are important as this is a time when virtual parent-child contact is increasingly being recommended by family justice professionals and the court as a means of maintaining parent-child relationships post-separation. Dr. Birnbaum notes that more research is required to determine the impact of the relative costs and burdens to parents having to provide the technology and how much adult assistance is required to organize and have the child available at the designated time, along with examining the safety risks underlying the use of the different types of technology.

*The study is limited by the sample size.

Implementing virtual parenting post-separation: Whose job is it, anyway?

The short answer is: it is the responsibility of both parents. Although the custodial parent may not believe that they benefit from their child interacting with their ex-spouse or the other parent in situations of high conflict, Canadian courts are very clear that for children to maintain relationships with both parents, both parents must be involved. Maintaining relationships with both parents after the parties have separated is highly valued by the Courts and it is considered to often be in the best interest of the child.

Canadian courts have ruled that custodial parents have an obligation to promote compliance with custody and access orders and cannot simply leave the questions of custody and access up to the child. This means that there is an obligation on the custodial parent to actively facilitate access with the other parent by ensuring that the children are available for the virtual or in-person parenting time. For more information on access enforcement, read the Department of Justice Canada’s Overview and Assessment of Approaches to Access Enforcement: An Update by Dr. Martha Bailey.

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At Banaszek Family Law, we offer independent legal advice and representation to serve your custody and parenting needs, whether that is drafting a Separation Agreement which includes a comprehensive parenting plan, or representing you in your family law and divorce litigation.

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